“The only way to achieve real freedom from the effects of a dishonoring parent is to honor that person.” –Gary Smalley & John Trent
I believe honor expresses the high value God places on the role of parents in the life of their children, and that grandparents are in a unique position to teach their grandchildren the value of and the purpose for giving honor to parents. To do so effectively, we must lead by example as we give honor to our own parents — in life or death. While a parent may not always fulfill that role well, we are not exempted from our responsibility to give honor. Scripture makes no allowance for any kind of exceptions, even for parents we may not deem worthy of honor.
God holds us to a higher standard – a code of honor that is built on a foundation of respect. An atmosphere of mutual respect for each other breathes life into a family. This command to honor our parents is so important to God that He attached the promise of “long life” to those who practice it. Therefore, if grandparents are to lead their grandchildren into a long and fruitful life, we must ourselves give honor and be intentional about showing them how to honor their parents.
So, what do you think?
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